My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

we have been dating for about a year now but 6 months ago she started acting funny so i looked at her myspace and sure enough she was still messaging her ex that she said she hated..hmm..well up till now we got cell phones together i saw her ex;s number but it was under a diffrent name whats with that? its on the top 5 too to boot lol so im hurt she also has been sending and recieving messages by this other guy who has been sending her dirty lil notes and stuff so i saw that on her phone.so i talk to her about it and she says she wont ever call him or talk to him again cool whatever but! she lied she still has been messegin him till now i just looked up everything online and all morning she was texting him wdf? we live together and i dont want to be out on the street and she drives me to work im steppin on glass here iv caught her in countless lies and found sum bad history about her and her ex;s i dont know what to do other than save for a car but still have to live somewhere its bad

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

Yeah well the smart thing to do is leave. But its up to you stay and have her fool around behind your back.I guess if you both come to terms and not be a couple but live together then its ok.

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

You just said you don't want to be out on the street? Well then if that's the case you will have to take her good with the bad. Start saving to get out on your own and just bide your time till you do. ;)

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

Treat her like a roommate and not like a gf.

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

its ur choice

its obvious that something may happen

so i suggest u get a backup place to fall back on if things go bad

maybe rent an apartment in case one of you dump each other

plan ahead every step and pay attention to the results of what you do

use your best judgement and hope for the best

=P

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

Sounds like you need to find another room mate and a new girlfriend. Seems like she is still in love with her ex. to me.

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

You definitely need to break up with her. Maybe you can do it amicably and agree that you'll stay in the house until you can find another place to live, 30 days or so. You might be able to find a roommate on craigslist in your city or check the newspaper or online.

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

Get out fast.You can do better than that.That there be a boat load of crap to put up with.I,m telling you get out now and don't move in together so fast.Yo man like that's crazy.Ask for financial help from your parents if you can.GET OUT NOW!

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

I would tell her that you don't want to be together anymore and that you are getting your own place in: however long it will take you to find somewhere to go.Do you have a friend/family who could get you and help you out?You really can't keep seeing her,she isn't mature enough for a relationship!Good luck-hope I helped:)

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

well just be nice to her to by you some time and start saving for a car and a house well

Good Luck to ya..

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

if she acting this way tell her your moving out if she objects than you can discuss how you feel , and if not go your way and don't worry everything happens for a reason. Don't be afraid.

My girlfriend is not who i thought i loved..lies..hiding stuff?! plz help?

have a talk with her if she continues to lie break up