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Alright omg.. Ok I found out a few weeks ago my bfs mom is a transvestite or atleast I think thats what its called i mean shes all ready had the surgrey and stuff years ago.. Well it was no big deal to me and my mom found out and now shes making a big deal out of it.. my bf and I love each other alot we've been dating for 2 years ( since we were 15) and after we graduate this year we plan on moving in together and possibly getting married.. How can I stop my mom from hurting everyone involved.. (She finds this so funny she posted it on our families myspace comments) plz help!

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Tell your mom how all this is affecting you. Tell her what you have told us and be sure to explain that some day your bf could be in your family too and it could be very uncomfortable for some of your family to deal with. Good luck

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Oh, for the love of - ! Speak up! IT'S YOUR LIFE!

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You're mother had good reason to be concerned. Although taking it to the Web is not the right thing to do.

She needs to keep her thoughts and comments about it between family members.

But, she does have a right to be concerned.

Communicate with her instead of here. That would be a good start. Let her know how you feel and what she has done has made you feel hurt.

What you're boyfriend's parents have done is wrong, in the eyes of a lot of us and the eyes of God.

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I would sit down with your mother and express your concerns and that you do not find this funny and wish she would have some human and ADULT compassion/understanding about the situation. I would also remind her that your bf's mother probably has gone through many life struggles before getting to the point of surgery and you would NEVER want to do anything to create hurt or pain for her. Also bring in the factor that you love your bf and you respect his family and their decisions (as long as they are legal and moral) and would like it if your mother would do the same. If she continues to ridicule or humor the situation, I would think seriously about continued contact with her. She is entitled to her opinion, but she also should respect your feelings. Respect of another human life is a VERY strong quality, even if we don't completely agree.

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Tell ya mom to stop hate'in. Enlight her that soon your bfs mom might be around the family and your mom might feel ashame for past smack talking. Other than that, if you can, just ignor what your mom have to say cause it's really about you and your bf tho.

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Tell her to stop. What his mother is or is not is really none of her business. It is what your bf is about that should be her only concern

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tell your mom this is not a joke for her to make fun of this person and that you need for her to respect your bf family just as they do yours.... if this person knows what she did they could take legal action......