Thursday, December 24, 2009

Any advice? He is ignoring me.?

I saw a beautiful profile on line. I was smitten so I wrote. He wrote back several messages with :" warm hugs, soft kiss, called me an angel, beautiful. I told him I would not be able to concentrate on my schoolwork (I am in grad school), because I could not stop thinking of him.



I then panicked because I did not hear from him. I sent him a poem I wrote (I am a songwriter). He has not responded to any communications. I am not interested in any other. I finally sent him a funny checklist as to why he might not be communicating (it really was funny). It included a couple of his stmts from his myspace site and alluded to other beautiful women lusting after him, teasing him about his good looks. He has other artists and beautiful women as friends on myspace. Now I can no longer view his myspace. I feel the initial communication was magic. What is going on? He had not stopped me from communicating on the dating site...when he easily could. Why doesn't he just tell me?



Any advice? He is ignoring me.?

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more..... nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship (AMEN) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. Make sure you make the 閳ユ甫nforgettable閳?one worth it.



Any advice? He is ignoring me.?

He's an a ss thats all

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